Seasons and Letting Go

Last night I dreamt that I was dying. Not a far in the future death, but a death that would occur in just a few hours. In my dream, I sat with a dear friend. We discussed life, death, and explored the possibilities of what might happen once I took my last breath. The dream…

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Trauma, Hope, and Healing

Human connection and intimacy are amongst the greatest things we can experience in this life.  Sadly, past hurts and trauma can lead to an inability to connect in a way that feels safe and nurturing.  Bessel van der Kolk in his book The Body Keeps the Score, states that “Trauma, whether it is the result…

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Recovery Is

Recovery, it is more than abstinence.  It is a conscious choice to walk the path of health.  A process of recognizing our feelings and needs.  It is an understanding of how our actions impact those around us.

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Loving What Is

Today I sat in a circle of women who open-heartedly shared their stories, spoke of unique struggles, and challenging circumstances.  As I listened, I noticed a common thread.  Each story was laced with feelings of inadequacy, uncertainty, less-than, and longings for contentment. Our longing to feel at home in our life experience is met with the…

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Moments of Peace

What is it about the present moment that causes us to frantically search for the quickest exit.  Running from presence can come in many forms – obsessive thinking, busyness, anger, substance abuse, impulsive shopping, excessive phone use, mindless social media activity.  There is an endless supply of ways in which we can escape the discomfort…

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